Customer Login

The KEY Questions: How can I get a good feeling?

12 February 18

It started out as simple light-headedness. Well I’d been doing pretty well on my diet up to now, cutting out sugar and putting plenty of time in at the gym, at least twice a week. I’d lost a few pounds and felt a whole lot better about myself, with renewed self-confidence and energy to spare. I had wanted to be a little lighter on my feet and it had happened without too much effort on my part. When those inevitable thoughts had come into my mind that I was too tired to push my body, or too hungry to miss out on that calorific treat, I had just ignored them.

This was different.

Something very strange was going on. I suddenly felt like a helium balloon about to drift away. I was at home, in the middle of the living room when I realised this was more than a sensation in my head; this was actually happening. I looked down and sure enough my feet weren’t so much planted on the carpet as brushing lightly against it. The next thing I knew I lost contact completely and began rising through the air, slowly at first but then more rapidly until I had to reach out to stop my head from bumping on the ceiling. There I stayed, halfway between too light fixtures, helplessly stuck like a fly on flypaper. Even so, in my panic and distress the one thing I was grateful for was that this was happening in the house. If it had happened in the garden I might never be seen again. I cursed myself repeatedly because I had no doubt in my mind that this was entirely my fault…

I’d forgotten how to use gravity to stay on the ground!

Sometimes when we exchange insights with each other, examining our understanding of the three principles of universal Mind, universal Consciousness and universal Thought, we innocently make the mistake of seeing them as tools to enrich our lives, concepts that we can take ‘off the shelf’ as it were, to influence and change our experience for the better. But it’s very important to emphasise that the principles are not prescriptive but rather they are descriptive of our human experience. They are just the way it is in this life, in this universe.

I told my little story about floating away – and by the way in case you were worried about me it never happened. I may have lost a few pounds but I’m still casting a shadow – to hopefully illustrate the point. We don’t use gravity! Gravity is a universal force – a universal Truth – that is simply part and parcel of our reality. That doesn’t mean that we are not aware of it in our everyday lives. Think of how you feel when you’re climbing one of those spiral staircases inside a tower or lighthouse and the ground is dropping away alarmingly beneath you.

We don’t use gravity, but we use our understanding of gravity to keep ourselves safe when we’re up high, or to put our glass down carefully so as not to spill red wine on the nice white carpet. It’s the same with the principles. Our understanding is all that counts, because that’s what allows us to steer away from the choppy waters of our negative thinking into that calm blue lagoon where clarity is restored.

That’s where the good feeling is to be found.

I’ve just spent a week in La Conner, coaching the principles with my good friends George and Linda Pransky, and as ever the more I taught the more I found I was learning. I’ve come home with many fresh insights that I’m eager to share. This ‘good feeling’ that we often hear about, ever since Sydney Banks had his extraordinary revelation back in the seventies, is not an absence of anything. It’s not merely the antidote to feeling bad, like my trips to the gym are an antidote to feeling unfit. The feeling is your birthright. It is how you are meant to feel.

I can’t say for sure because I only have my own experience but I think the feeling is probably different for each one of us. What I know is that it’s a loving feeling. Personally I have it watching my two young daughters playing a game together, in quiet moments with my wife, or when I’m sharing insights with a client and I see him or her transform before my eyes.

I know equally that this feeling is always there, like the sun that is always there behind the rain clouds. I don’t need reminding anymore. (And if I did, well, that’s what rainbows are for, right?)

Comments

comments

Do you want to be updated with new blog posts?
  • Having attended David's course and then had some one to one sessions with him my approach to my life has changed dramatically and improved. David has a very gentle and empathic way about him, yet managed to challenge my habitual way of being and thinking. As a result of our time together I now practice his "way of being" and I truly find that I am getting far better results in all of the relationships that I encounter. My inner chatter is under control, most of the time, and I am learning to pause and push away harmful thinking . It's surprising how habitual thinking can do so much damage and how, once you really focus on what comes into your mind you start to realise that you can be bigger than your random thoughts. So David thank you for putting me on a better pathway. Looking forward to sharing another journey with the Auspicium family!
    Rowena Wild

  • The course I attended with David Key was marvellous, every moment being filled with joy and laughter. David has a unique talent to teach, unlocking the full potential of every person he encounters. His course opened up an infinite number of ways for me to get the life I want, right now, today, and in the future. It made me realise that thought is fluid and that I can mould it the way I want to suit my day. I would highly recommend this course to anyone in search of a new professional career or for those who simply want a happier life. Thank You!
    Lucia Pohrebnyak

  • It took me about 5 years of 'dithering' before committing, and in that time I attended several introductory days from various training providers. David's accessible style and the unforced flow of the day is what persuaded me to choose his company. David provides a training model that helps you become your best self - as a student, as a practitioner, as a person. By 'best', I mean more open, less fearful, more confident, less judgemental - whether you attend the course to make a change personally or professionally, to build on existing success, or with no idea where it might go, simply because you are interested (that was me!) you will be impressed at what you are able to achieve with David's expert guidance showing you how to use your curiosity as a pathway to growth. In the first week following the course, I dealt with several potentially difficult situations both at work and home, coming from a changed perspective - resulting in no conflict, calmer colleagues, less stressed family. And this without actively using any techniques; the biggest change has been inside my own headspace. I can't wait to do the next course. Now that I know, unequivocally, the benefits to be had, I wish I had come down off the fence years ago! Added bonus, a bunch of fabulous new friends. And a final thought about cost; some of you reading this will be struggling to justify spending a chunk of hard earned money "just" for yourself. Well, I will be using these tools every day for the rest of my life - pennies a day investment! I am SO worth it. And so are you!
    Sue Bee

  • I first met David at an evening business club a couple of years ago. During his presentation something “clicked” with me and I felt compelled to further my understanding of NLP. I attended the Auspicium free trial day. My earlier feelings were confirmed. This guy knows what he’s talking about and has a passion for helping people. I duly signed up for the NLP and Hypnotherapy practitioner course. What a week. All in the class left in such high spirits with a very different outlook on life. Following on I have attended the NLP and Hypnotherapy Master Practitioner course. Again excellent. There was something about the Hypnotherapy element of the course that I loved so on to the Hypnotherapy Trainers Training (another absolutely brilliant week). All the courses that I have attended have been very well organised, have a great team of trainers and support volunteers. The documentation is well put together and the exercises are all structured to push yourself to show you have a grasp of the given subject. I now have a fantastic group of new friends who I have a deep link with. We still meet up when we can to catch up on what we are all doing. As of March this year I have been participating in the Auspicium Freedom Project. This is a yearlong “conversation” about the 3 Principles – Mind, Thought and Consciousness. It took me a while to “get” it but now just by “doing nothing” I find myself doing more with better results and no stress. There are no models or techniques to learn. We all have the Principles inside us. We just need to be woken up to how to use them. It’s a great journey that will take the rest of my life. David is a superb trainer and fully deserves all the praise he receives.
    Phillip Warris

  • Before going on David’s Practitioner course, I thought I knew what I wanted, where I was headed and how I was going to get it. All I wanted an additional skill to add to my portfolio. I thought my life was in reasonably good order, nothing that needed fixing. I can sum up my experience of working with David in two words: life-changing. Instead of just learning a new skill, David encouraged us to apply his teaching, our learning, to ourselves. In a very safe environment, I gradually dropped the barriers I had painstakingly built up over a long time. This change happened very quickly and I continued growing as a person, studying 2 more courses with David and joining him on the Freedom project. Why David? He is disarmingly honest, genuine and engaging. He has a very broad knowledge of human behaviour and passes his knowledge on with grace. As a result of working with David, I have changed, and my life has changed. In myself I am very happy and contented person. My marriage is better and stronger. My business plans have taken a different route - one that is exciting and feels very right for me.
    Valerie